The Same Reaction. A Different Person. Every Time. It's Not Them — It's the Pattern.
TRIGGERED — a new book on emotional self-leadership from Gary De Rodriguez, "The People Mechanic." Be the first to know the moment it's live.
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You know better. You react anyway.
You're capable. You solve hard problems every day. But somewhere — with a partner, family, or the people closest to you — you keep reacting the same way, even when you know better in the moment.
You've tried to communicate more clearly. Stay calmer. Explain yourself better. And still, the same trigger hits, and you're right back in the old pattern before you even notice it happening.
This isn't a communication problem. It's a pattern recognition problem — and most advice never actually gets underneath it.
See the pattern. Then choose differently.
Triggered doesn't hand you more scripts to say the right thing. It walks you through the actual sequence behind every reaction — the event, the meaning you attach to it, the state it puts you in, and the reaction that follows — so you can catch it before it runs the show.
This is Relationship Intelligence in practice: not trying harder, but finally seeing the pattern clearly enough to choose differently.
Instant access the moment Triggered launches
A practical walkthrough of the pattern behind every emotional reaction
Real tools to catch the trigger before it controls your next move
A guide to repair, self-leadership, and building a different relationship with yourself
"After 38 years and 30,000 clients, I kept seeing the same thing: people don't struggle because they aren't trying. They struggle because they can't yet see the pattern running the show. Triggered is what I wish I could hand every one of them on day one."
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